If you don't have RESPECT + L❤️VE for your doubles partner...it may be time to make to make a shift.
Either a change in your attitude - or get a new partner. Life is way too short to spend with people that you can't be kind and respectful to.
So either learn to look at the great things they offer on the court (if not their technical game - then maybe their positive attitude or their health or their generosity of spirit or that they are fun). And if you really can't find something - don't treat them badly - just release them.
Be good or be gone....