PLAN YOUR WORK AND FUN AND WORK YOUR PLAN!!! I am very intentional about my life - it helps me stay connected and in balance. When I am organized about my input and output - then I am freer to be more.
My system is called "Tenacity + Generosity = Success". I use my daily forms to plan, execute and document my life - almost like a super diary.
It helps me quickly assert which habits and people are serving my happiness and which need to be deleted.
It sounds harsh - but I am on a mission to being the best I can be and have the most fun - and so I am deliberate with my time and energy choices!
As I rose in the ranks of tennis from 2.5 to 4.5 from 2009 until 2017 I noticed a huge difference in the "fun" element. The higher level ladies seemed more serious, competitive and attached to winning. I am not interested in that kind of tennis! It's my hobby! So I have stayed in that space.....by choice!