I wear my solid gold - Peace - Love - Tennis -bracelet with black leather strap as a reminder to keep my EGO OFF THE COURT!!! How well I play - or if I won or lose - or how well my partner plays - none of these things define me.
Tennis is my hobby and I practice prescience and gratitude when I play. Kindness and compassion for myself and others.
I use the court for life lessons - it's cheaper than therapy (and more fun)!