The couple that play together stay together (as long as they are respectful to each other)!!! Robert and I have been playing tennis over three years together. At the beginning it was easy - to be sweet, forgiving and honoring.
But as the new excitement about him wore off - it took some effort to keep being kind. I started noticing his double faults more - and the “easy” misses - and the unforced errors.
I took a couple of weeks off to gather my thoughts.
Did I want to destroy our partnership?
I so chose to refocus my thoughts to all that he did RIGHT! If I ever want to look for weaknesses - I look OVER THE NET at the opponents!
And magically - he started playing better and better!!!