GENEROUS people are the happiest.
Partners that "let go" of hurts quickly. Coaches that give extra. Captains that ask their players for suggestions. Tournament directors that help vendors.
I have noticed the more GENEROUS I am - the more FUN I have! I seem to become "luckier" somehow!!! When someone does something "mean" I now try to make up a possible reason to justify my ability to "excuse" them. And it makes me feel better.
It's a huge act of generosity to FORGIVE AND EVEN FORGET the transgressions of others.
It's works the same with myself - being GENEROUS with myself and forgiving my own mistakes and missteps are key to bliss on and off the court!
NOTE TO SELF: don't beat yourself or others up so much - be sweet, light and FUN!