When I play tennis - of course I am trying to win - but the difference is that now - when I lose - instead of getting angry, disappointed or sad, I realize that I have something more to learn. Losing is an opportunity to shift and grow - it's actually a GOOD thing.
So even though my commitment is to play my very best and win in competitive matches - the truth is that I welcome losses just as much as wins. In fact - losses have a greater and lengthier positive impact on my life than wins do!!! So next time you lose - don't lose the LESSON.
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