The point is NOT to find the perfect doubles partner to play with - it's to find the lovable things about your partner!!! We all have positive and negative attributes - however a decision to focus on my partners strengths keeps us bonded together throughout the match!
And even more importantly - if we lose and people ask me how the match went - it's much more pleasurable talking about the things that we did right in the match!!! Keep the stress off the court - take time to get present to all of the awesome things that are awesome about your doubles partner!! Click the link in my bio for cute "I ❤️ MY DOUBLES PARTNER!!!" gifts (like cool tennis visors) and my inspirational tennis book!!!