By staying open and saying, “Yes” more freely I end up having the BEST EXPERIENCES.
Before - when someone would ask me to play - I would ask a series of questions such as; “Who else is playing”? Or “Where are we playing”? I was looking to see if I looked the club or the other people. And this caused me to say, “No” way too often.
One day I decided that if I was able to time-wise, I would always say yes. Before asking who and where.