Lessons From the Net

Anyone who knows me has heard me say that - "Tennis is a microcosm of life! Who you are ON the court is also who you are OFF the court!" Tonight m...

On (or off) the court I get to see what I'm really made of when things aren't going to plan, expectations or desires. I play close attention to ho...

RAISE your expectations. I had one season on a yucky team. And then one season on another crummy team. This season I found my people!!! I am on a ...

I am NOT perfect. I make mistakes. Sometimes I REACT inappropriately- instead of RESPONDING to a challenge.But you know what? When I screw up - af...

Have you ever left the court thinking that you played badly because your partner was playing badly? As if you had to "make up" for them and so you...

My partner Andrea chooses to see my strengths on the court - and I see hers too. As a result of this mutual admiration..her overheads have improve...

Why is it s important for recreational tennis players to WIN their match? To a point where if they don't win they get really upset? It is a strong...

I wrote the book "I ❤️ MY DOUBLES PARTNER!!!" In it - I describe the formula for success:Tenacity + Generosity + Gratitude = BLiSSThe tennis court...

Do you L❤️VE your doubles partner? If so...buy them my awesome book!!! Have it shipped to your house so that you can write inside all the things t...

When I am being too "heady" I don't play very well. Once I get on the court for a match - it's time to just PLAY - no more thinking (about my tech...

On the tennis court (as in life) we all encounter many people - opponents and partners - with many personalities. All of us have negative and posi...

Are you having a repetitive crappy experience on the court? Are you getting into fights? Are you constantly injured? Are you losing partners? Are ...