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Lowering Your Expectations Makes You Happier!!

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Lower your expectations of yourself and your doubles partner too. Instead slide gracefully into gratitude for being able to play tennis and ❤️ every moment of it!!! If you want to be happy and have more fun on the court - place your desires internally and let go of attachment to winning or playing well that day for your happiness.The truth is that if you give yourself and your partner a safe space that allows for mistakes without judgement and disappointment - you will end up playing better - and she will too.No one plays better by being disparaged for...

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Unusual Behavior

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Don't take things personally! When people are acting strange just allow it to be. Normally - it's something going on with them - it's not directed at you!My partner and I played the first match of our season today - but the first set was a train reck for me - I was unusually distracted - hearing noises off the court and the chit chat of our opponents. And then there was that line call. And long breaks. I remembered that I have to ability to accesses stillness from inside - no matter what is going on outside. This is...

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Don't forget to HAVE FUN!

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Don't forget to HAVE FUN! That seems obvious right? It's a game after all. Our hobby. A time to de-stress and enjoy.

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Find Something To Love

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  I had someone ask me, "What if I don't ❤️ my doubles partner?" That's a valid question. Here's is my challenge to you - is it not possible to FIND SOMETHING TO ❤️ about them? Wouldn't you like people to recognize and reward your attributes and efforts instead of focusing on your deficiencies? At whatever level that you play - your partners will have some wonderful qualities and some annoying habits too - the question is - do you want to be happy? Do you want to have fun? Do you want to be kind? Do you want to...

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Lessons from the net: Self Coaching

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I hear people self coaching : "watch the ball", "turn your shoulders", "step into your shots", but for me - I play MUCH better when I am just being with the ball, court and game. If my mind stops thinking and allows my body to do what it knows to - then I slide into the flow of the game aka "the zone". This can be tricky in doubles because my partner affects my mood too - and that why I wrote the book "I ❤️ MY DOUBLES PARTNER!!!"- to help us be inspiring and kind to our partner on...

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